Families look for the sect (Shwetambar, Digambar, Sthanakvasi, Terapanthi or Derawasi), the community (Oswal, Porwal, Agarwal…) and gotra, and food habits: many families prefer a partner who follows Jain food without onion and garlic.
Native place and mosal matter a lot in Jain families, as relatives often know each other through them.
What to include
- Heading॥ जय जिनेन्द्र ॥, ॥ णमो अरिहंताणं ॥, or the Ahimsa hand or Swastik symbol.
- Personal detailsFull name, date and place of birth, height, complexion, marital status, religion and caste. Keep it factual: these are the first lines every family reads.
- Religious detailsSect, community and gotra.
- Food habitsJain food (no onion and garlic), vegetarian, or other.
- Education & careerHighest qualification, college, occupation, company, work location and income (a range is fine). Mention it even if you are still studying.
- Family detailsParents, siblings, family type, native place and mosal (maternal family).
- Contact detailsOne or two phone numbers, usually a parent's, and the city or area. You can hide the phone and address when sharing widely.
- Partner expectationsWhat matters most to you: education, values, location, food habits or community. Keep it short and polite.
Tips
- Write your native place and mosal: they help families find common relatives.
- Mention Jain food habits clearly in both your details and partner expectations.
- Keep it to one A4 page if you can. Families often forward it on WhatsApp, and a single page is easiest to read on a phone.
- Ask a family elder to read it once. Spelling of names, gotra and native place matters to them.
Frequently asked questions
Most families write ॥ जय जिनेन्द्र ॥ or ॥ णमो अरिहंताणं ॥. The Ahimsa hand and Swastik are popular symbols.